Posts Tagged ‘Joy’

What is Joy?

January 14, 2010

Joy is a deep, abiding feeling of happiness grounded in peace and bliss. It is our felt perception of the the creative and sustaining energy that the Universe is made of. When we are centered deeply within ourselves, we feel true joy. It does not depend on any external circumstance. When we are settled in the still place and in that feeling, we feel nourished and held, even when circumstances around us are less than optimal. Enlightenment is being able to experience this on an on-going basis.

Joy comes as a result of our effort, effectively applied. The paradox is that joy is always present in us. Under all the layers of pain, unresolved feelings, and beliefs that life is hard and we don’t deserve to have it be easy, there it is. Waiting. As soon as we do the work, sometimes, just a piece of it, we can be flooded with contentment, gratitude, and yes, joy. It doesn’t matter what we’ve been up against before, or even what our life circumstances are now. There it is.

Before Resolutions – Give yourself credit for 2009

December 29, 2009

Thanks to my lovely yoga teacher, I came up with a great idea this morning. I tried it with my family, and it worked. Rather than flying straight to a new to-do list for the new year, we wrote a list of all the things with which we’d succeeded in ’09. This includes accomplishments and also internal successes, growth, difficulties successfully navigated, hard times well lived through, things we’re proud of that others wouldn’t understand.  My list includes finishing the final draft of Uncover Joy, becoming a better mother by working through a type of situation that always got my goat, confronting a fear by taking riding lessons, continuing to ride so that I’m out of the ‘baby’ category, and internal wins such as being at peace with a troublesome relationship, and also finally working through a type of situation that always led to my feeling terrible, so that I finally feel that I belong in the world and that I can move freely through it. This one led to my favorite, truly feeling joyful so much of the time.

At our house, we’re having so much fun with it that we’re going to keep adding to our lists as we think of more things to feel good about.

Try it. Does it lead to your feeling more complete and satisfied with 2009? What does giving yourself credit do for you? Do you relish the feeling of accomplishment? Do you feel satisfied and at peace?

And what are your end of year/project rituals? I’d love to know.


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